sex addiction counseling
Sexual secrets separate you from the life you were made to have.
If you’re feeling trapped in problematic sexual behavior, and can’t seem to stop, you are not alone.
What once felt like exciting or passionate encounters are now followed by tons of shame and fear.
After all is over, you’re left to deal with the secret life that has developed.
Many feel the only way to be free from this cycle is to do it.
Once started, the problematic behavior seems to get worse over time and cause difficulty in daily functioning.
You may be suffering from a sexual addiction.
Signs of Sexual Addiction:
- Obsessive thinking about sex which distracts from other daily tasks.
- Loss of control over sexual urges, fantasies or behaviors (as evidenced by failed attempts to quit or cut back).
- Negative life consequences related to compulsive sexual behaviors, such as ruined relationships, trouble at work or school, loss of interest in nonsexual activities, financial problems, loss of community standing, shame, depression, anxiety or legal issues.
Maybe you’re thinking…
- “Am I the only one struggling with this sexual stuff?”
- “I feel crazy, and I can’t stop.”
- “Is there any hope? Can I recover from this?”
- “I feel like I’m living a double life.”
You are not alone.
Whether it’s compulsive use of online pornography, anonymous sex, visiting prostitutes, compulsive dating, compulsive masturbation, risky or unsafe sex, multiple affairs in person or online, exhibitionism, or voyeurism many suffer and there is help and hope.
These actions do not make you bad person.
They just indicate there is a need for help.
These behaviors wreak havoc.
They result in the inability to connect with loved ones, loss of jobs, loss of relationships, arrest (when illegal), feelings of inadequacy, being alone and afraid. These outcomes get worse and more intense as sexual addiction progresses over time.
It takes willingness and honesty, as well as an experienced guide, to help dispel the obsession and break the addiction cycle.
As a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist candidate, I guide clients on a path that moves out of the chaos and into support and guidance. It is my calling in life to help others on their recovery.
The way out begins with honesty and willingness.
It includes long term help and support from trusted and safe people who can help heal the issues created by trauma and addiction.
Sexual addiction rarely stands alone and is often rooted in early attachment relationships in life, different forms of trauma, abandonment, and toxic shame.
Healing has to come about in physical, emotional, and spiritual forms taking back the missing pieces to be lasting and effective.
I’m passionate about guiding people out of the chaos and into the life they were made to live.
Call now to schedule your free 20-minute consultation and get started on your path to peace.